How did it all start?

Selfbondage, chastity and everything that came on my path.

How it all began.

I started to get interested in the kink world when I was about 15 years old. At the moment of writing I am almost 25 years old. So that asks for a little celebration I guess.

When boys are at the age of 15 they start to discover their body and everything that has to do with sexuality. So was I. Everyone knows how it goes, it is all exciting and new. Then all of a sudden I saw something in public and i did not really understand what I was seeing. There was a person walking in my hometown with cuffs around her wrists and ankles. And she wore (what it looked like to me) a dog collar.

And it was all made of metal and it seem to be locked with a kind of lock. And that got me really intressted. Why would such a person wear all of that heavy jewelry/restraints. After what I then I started to look things up on the internet. And then there was so much to be found about collars, restraints, modern day slaves etc etc. It was like a big door openend for me and all that got me triggered.

After looking it all up I started to do selfbondage. I never read about it but I just liked the thought of inescapebility. So I played around with some belts i had laying around and that all went very well. I almost always managed to escape savely. But there was one time I did not succesfully escape and i had to cut my belt apart with sciccors. I tied myself to my bed with my ankles bound and each of my arms above my head. Just like a spread eagle. And from there on I still do some selfbondage and I do still enjoy it.

Chastity

After about 2 years I started learning about chastity and I wanted to try it for my self. So what I did was: I ordered the most cheap metal chastity cage I could find here in the Netherlands.

Here on the right is the exact cgae it all started with. It was about €25 i believe. So it was defeintly not expensive. But it worked. I was able to wear it for a full day and the feeling was so amazing I never wanted it to be over. It really turns the head of a man with 180 degrees. It is not easy to describe how it exactly works but in my opinion every couple/man should at least try this for a week in his life. YOU WILL NOT REGRET IT. Hand the keys to your wife and see where it will strand.

But the cage I had was no succes for 24/7 wearing. So I looked around and decided to spent some more money on a new, more secure cage. This time it was going to be a CB-6000

This cage was made for long term wear. So I tried that. but since I still had my foreskin it wouldn't work really well and didn't quite fit the cage. But I could wear it for a week. Which was allready something great. But not perfect. The big downside of the CB range is that it is made of 2 halves of plastic which are glued together so they will sometimes break. 

And after a few week of owning this device I realised it was not escapeproof.......

So we go to the internet again and look for a new metal cage. And this time i don't want to be able to escape it. JUST NOT!

So I came up with thise device: 

This was something completly new for me. This had a uretha plug in the cage. After doing some research I was told that a uretha plug helps so secure the penis more and make sure you are not able to pull out. And that was right, it was difficult to pull out, so I never managed to pull out of this device.

Piercings?

As time continues and I spent  a lot of time in the last called cage I started to get a little bored and wanted something new. A relationship just ended and a new one started so I got the idea of getting a Prince Albert piercing. If something is secure with chastity, then it must be something that goes right true you body and secure to something solid. So I got my Prince Albert piercing and another world openend for me. I was now able to secure the head of my peni$ to the cage and then it would be really escape proof. There is just now way of pulling out because the piercing is secured to a cage or something else solid.

Chastity Belts

So you have chastity cages and chastity belts. Cages are good fun and nice to start the journey with. But when you wan real security and 100% no change of escaping, you must go with a full chastity belt.

I also did look at some of the most bespoken belts around the web. And I fell for the MY-STEEL range belts

And this was really something new for me. This was even better then the first time I put on a chastity cage. You just instantly know that there is no escape. At first you have to adjust and bend the metal/steel a little to get it into shape of your body. But when all that is done, there is no better feeling in the world then when the locks click shut and you know you will not see your penis for a while.

One downside on the MY-STEEL belts is that they can 'jingle' a little under clothing. espacially when you have clothing on that is not realy thight but more on the loose side.And then with every step you take there is a change of people hearing metal moving against eachtoher. But for sports and going to the gym & jogging it is ideal!!

Stupid 'jingling'

So to get rid of the jingling sound when walking around I had to look around for something more solid. It would be best if there were no moving/flexibel parts.

So iidid end up on the site of Behind Barz chastity belts

And this was again an amazing feeling when I put it on for the first time. Everything was just really well-made and just supersolid. And up till now I have found no downside or whatsoever about these belts. Just make sure you order everything in the right size.
I modded my waistband & outer hannibal cage so I could wear it for even longer times.
So every time I am in chastity and locked up, I wear this beauty from Behind Barz. I SIMPLY LOVE IT!!

BEHIND BARZ

MY-STEEL

CB-X CB-6000